The Big day has already come. You have decided to get a computer for your small one because kids have to study computer subject in school, they need a good hands on experience on computers. From your point of view it is a wise decision, for kids this day is very exciting day since they have their own computer they can do Home work on computer, also when time permits they can play computer games.
But wait a minute! When you got computer along with lot of advantages you have got home lot of disadvantages also. Especially if you have decided to have a internet connection along with your purchase. It all depends on what steps you have taken to protect your loved ones from the BAD BAD world there.
Here are some of the steps you can take to protect your kids intern protect your self from online misadventures.
1. Get a Firewall
We all have read in history how the Great Wall of China protected the kingdom. Before the wall there were Invasions on china. Zhou Dynasty, which was in the 11th century BC decided and constructed the great wall, china was able to protect itself.
Same is true for your computer get a software called Firewall which acts like a wall between you and the outside world of Internet and monitors and protects every actions and warn you of any illegal attempt to attach your system from outside.
2. Make Sure to Download Operating System Updates and Patches
A large number of people use Microsoft windows on their computers. And this software is famous for security holes. To counter the security breach of your computer Microsoft releases updates. Activate and keep the updates on your machine from control panel.
This will keep windows system up-to-date and plug the security holes and secure your system from virus and other malicious software code.
3. Install Antivirus Software.
A virus is a software that gets into your computer and copies itself and distributes itself to other computers and creates unwanted experience on your computer.
It mainly comes :
From a removable disk
From an attachment to an e-mail message
From a download while surfing the web
From a worm through a known hole or flaw in your operating system
Antivirus software is software that you use to protect yourself from computer viruses. It can detect and remove known computer viruses. There are many excellent antivirus packages available that are relatively inexpensive. There are also several excellent antivirus packages available for free for home, non-commercial use. Use them
4. Install Anti-Spyware Software
Adware is any software that displays advertisements on your computer screen, either through banner advertisements within an application, or through pop-up windows. Spyware, which may also be known as a spybot, or tracking software, is computer technology installed on an individual’s PC that gathers information about them and their computer use. Adware and spyware removal software, or anti-spyware software, is software that is installed on your computer to combat the threats of adware and spyware. It will search your computer’s memory, file system, system registry, and browser caches for the existence of adware and spyware. It will then remove or quarantine any items that it finds. Adware and spyware removal software may also monitor for, and actively block, the downloading of spyware applications.
5. Think About Privacy Software
As you use your computer, and surf the web, traces of your activity get left behind, stored on your computer in lists, temporary files, and caches. The best case is that these “leftovers” can clutter up your PC, and, with time, degrade its performance. The worst case is that someone who gains unauthorized access to your PC can read these files and learn a fair amount about you, potentially helping them to steal your identity.
Privacy software removes all traces of your PC and Internet activity, helping to protect your privacy.
As with antivirus software and anti-spyware software, privacy software should be run on a regular basis. It, too, can be setup to run automatically on a regular basis so that an end-user does not have to do anything to protect their privacy
6. Think Before You Click
When you visit websites on internet there are lot of attractions and distractions and many time you are tempted to click on the advertisement or the message appears. WAIT! Think before you click. The link may download an virus, a spyware or privacy software which will help some one out there to do Identity theft. And use your identity like your name personal information email address phone number credit card number to do illegal activities on your name.
Protecting Your Kids
Now that you have taken care of the basics and protected you PC, it is time to specifically worry about keeping your kids safe. When trying to protect your children, it is important to:
Set expectations
Monitor and control what your children do online
Use some common sense
Setting Online Expectations
It is important for you as a parent to be clear with your children what you expect of them when they are using the PC. You need to be clear about what you consider to be appropriate online behavior, as well as what is and is not appropriate to be accessing online. Children should be taught:
* That they should never give out personal information such as their name, address, e-mail address, phone number, or age to anyone over the Internet without your express permission.
* That they should never fill out forms without your permission.
* That they should tell you if they come across anything or anyone online that they feel is not appropriate or that makes them uncomfortable.
* That they should ask before downloading or installing software on a PC.
* That they should never, under any circumstances, arrange to meet alone with someone who they have met online. This can be especially important for your teenage children who may feel that they have met the boy or girl of their dreams online. If they feel that they absolutely must meet this individual, then they should arrange to do it with a responsible adult present. You should remind them that it is very easy for someone to masquerade as someone else online.
Monitor and Control What Your Children Do Online
The PC that your children use should be setup in a public location where it is easy for you to monitor what your children are doing. It is very difficult for a child to engage in questionable online activities when everyone in the family can easily look over their shoulder. If you have children who participate in chat rooms or use instant messaging software you should regularly ask them who they are communicating with. If they are evasive or do not tell you, take away their computer privileges. Having a safe mad child is better than having an unsafe happy one.
There is also software that can help parents protect their children. Software to help keep children safe comes in two forms: monitoring software, and parental control software.
Monitoring software allows parents to monitor activity on the family PC. Many packages will allow you to monitor computer activity including web surfing activity, e-mail messages, chat, and instant messaging. Some software will even allow screen shots to be taken at predetermined increments of time. Many of these packages will operate in stealth mode, meaning that no one will know that the software is even installed and running. Of course telling your children that you have software that is monitoring their activity may also act a a deterrent. Monitoring software typically does not filter out any bad content. It simply lets you know if someone is accessing things that are inappropriate.
Use Some Common Sense
You should be aware if your child becomes secretive about what they are doing online. Averting a computer monitor, or quickly turning it off whenever someone walks into the room is not normal computer behavior. It is, however, the behavior of an individual who is trying to hide something. If your child is exhibiting “odd” computer behavior question them. If you get no answers or you do not like the answers, take away their computer privileges and/or get software that monitors their activity. As has already been stated, a mad safe child is better than a happy unsafe one.
by Anson Sequeira